From time to time I will add resources I use, like and am comfortable suggesting to you.

To Enhance your Relationship
  • Not Just Friends: Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After the Infidelity by Shirley Glass
  • The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity by Ester Perel
  • Emotional Infidelity: How to Affair-Proof Your Marriage and 10 Other Great Secrets to a Great Relationship by Gary Neuman
  • After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner has Been Unfaithful by Janis Abrahms Spring
  • Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love & Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships by David Schnarch
  • Intimacy and Desire: Awaken the Passion in Your Relationship by David Schnarch
  • Sexual Intelligence: What we REALLY Want from Sex and How to Get It by Marty Klein
Divorce & Separation
For Adults
  • Mom’s House, Dad’s House: Making Two Homes for your Children by Isolina Ricci
  • What About the Kids?: Raising Your Children Before, During, and After Divorce by Judith Wallerstein
  • Helping Your Kids Cope with Divorce the Sandcastles Way by Gary Neuman
  • The Divorce Remedy: The Proven 7-Step Program for Saving your Marriage by Michele Weiner Davis
For Children
  • Dinosaurs Divorce by Marc Brown and Laurie Krasny Brown
  • It’s Not Your Fault, Koko Bear: A Read-Together Book for Parents and Young Children During Divorce by Vicki Lansky
  • Two Homes by Claire Masure
Conflict Resolution
  • Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most by Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, and Sheila Heen
  • Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In by Roger Fisher, William Ury and Bruce Patton
  • Getting Past No: Negotiating in Difficult Situations by William Ury
  • Verbal Judo: The Gentle Art of Persuasion by George Thompson

*Please note that resources and links are being provided as a convenience and for informational purposes only. Conflict Options bears no responsibility for the accuracy, legality or content of the resource or external website or for that of subsequent links. Please contact the resource author for answers to questions regarding its content.

In Person Appointments

After careful consideration of the state of the Covid19 pandemic in British Columbia, Conflict Options has restarted in-person sessions by request only.  Masks are mandatory as per the Public Health Orders.

Virtual sessions are available and are encouraged. We are taking the following steps to ensure maximum client and practitioner safety: 

  • Masks must be worn by all participants
  • Frequent cleaning of high-touch surfaces
  • Increased time between appointments to allow for adequate cleaning
  • Seating arranged so that client and therapist are not in close proximity during appointments
  • Clients are asked to not arrive before their appointment time so as to avoid multiple families in the waiting room
  • Virtual appointments are available and encouraged

*Important: Please bring your completed INFORMED CONSENT FOR IN-PERSON SERVICES DURING COVID-19 PUBLIC HEALTH CRISIS form to your first in-person appointment.